On this day, exactly a year ago, at an amazingly inspirational transpersonal coach training workshop run by Sir John Whitmore, I visioned my life a year on. I had a very clear image in my mind – which emerged somewhat messier, due to my lack of drawing skills – of a huge heart, with wings attached, while firmly grounded with little comical cartoon feet. Behind my winged & feeted heart was a huge globe: the whole Earth, no less!
As we did this exercise in pairs, my partner – a friend and fellow coach – commented: I see you’ve placed yourself bigger than the Globe! And while that wasn’t necessarily my intention – being present in the world with my whole heart, mind, body (and wings!), while engaging in my true life’s purpose, was.
At the time I hadn’t yet decided that I was going to try and make my living by coaching alone: I was still looking for other organisational posts, and very much wobbling in my intent to become self-employed. But that image – that metaphor – of me being in the world, coaching, stayed with me. Inspired by my partner from the workshop, I took a picture of it on my phone, which has been with me ever since.
Six months later – again pretty much to the day – my website was nearing completion: with much better design, I hasten to add, owing to the grace and talent of a great web designer; I had become self-employed; and I had started to make a living by coaching alone. I had joined coaching associations, met wonderfully inspiring people, attended training events and continued my coaching professional development.
Now, a year later, I see how far I’ve come… I’ve become accredited with the biggest international coach federation; I’ve written my first article for a coaching magazine; ran my first session as a presenter at a coaching event; became the web editor for the UK branch of ICF. And I’m still earning money by coaching, and I still feel – as I said at that workshop a year ago – that the Universe sings when I coach.
Have things turned out as I expected? I’m not entirely sure…
I don’t think I had a very detailed plan of how I wanted things to turn out: and I’m sure if you ask me, I can certainly be much more ambitious and successful than I already am, but on the whole that picture stands true: I am a coach, with a big heart, outstretched wings and comical feet. And the world is behind me…